How to handle costly cultural funerals without hurting your marriage

It often starts with a sudden, heartbreaking phone call that changes your family life right away. When an elderly family member or close relative dies, you and your spouse are still in shock, but there is little time to grieve. Suddenly, you have to focus on urgent planning. Family elders meet, and your household is […]

How Often Should Couples Argue? What’s Normal in a Healthy Marriage?

Someone once spent some time around my husband and me and then said, “You two don’t argue, do you? ”I laughed. Not because the question was strange, but because the answer was so obvious to me. Of course we argue. Apparently, we had just done a good job of keeping our arguments out of public […]